Au Pair BLOG
互惠生：来自妈妈的“嫉妒”？（真实案例）Au Pair: Maternal “Jealousy”? (A True Story)
梅丽莎来自德国，来华做互惠生之前是在读大学二年级，他在大学选修了中文，面试的时候我看到他卧室里面挂了个横幅“天道酬勤”，我就知道这个女孩稳了，这么喜欢中文，英语又很流利，肯定能匹配个彼此喜欢的家庭。Melissa came from Germany. Before coming to China as an au pair, she was a sophomore in university, where she had chosen Chinese as an elective. During the interview, I saw a banner in her bedroom that read “Tiān dào chóu qín” (Hard Work Pays Off), and I knew this girl was a perfect fit. With such a passion for Chinese and fluent English, she was sure to match with a host family that adored her.
互惠生面试 三个问题读懂真性情（法宝级别）Au Pair Interviews: 3 Golden Questions to Reveal True Character
很多国内家庭面试互惠生，来去几句几乎都是
Hello how are you? Welcome~
互惠生 把我家弄得鸡飞狗跳？（失败案例）Au Pair Turned Our Home Upside Down? (A Cautionary Tale)
如果家庭请一个互惠生非但没帮到小朋友，反而让小朋友变得更焦躁的话，是不是一个很失败的案例？
What if hosting an au pair not only fails to help your child but actually heightens their anxiety? Let me share the story of Beatrice, an Italian au pair, and the unexpected chaos that unfolded.
互惠生能提高孩子英语吗？
多项实证研究显示， 4-10岁左右的儿童若每天沉浸式接触英语 ≈6 小时，在互动质量较高且持续不断的情况下，一般 3–8 个月即可达到“能用简单句完成日常交流”的 BICS（Basic Interpersonal Communication Skills）水准；要想进一步迈向学术语言或中高级水平，则需要显著更长的累积输入（数年量级）。
电影里的“互惠生交流中心”，现实中真的存在！ The “au pair exchange center” depicted in the movie actually exists in reality!
电影里的“互惠生交流中心”，现实中真的存在！
还记得电影《洋妞到我家》里那个把中式幽默、哥伦比亚热情和鸡娃家庭日常搅在一起、制造出一连串笑料的“互惠生交流中心”吗？
它就是我们——仁互惠 AuPair Ren！
The “au pair exchange center” in the movies actually exists in real life!
Remember the “au pair exchange center” in the movie My New Sassy Maid that mixed Chinese humor, Colombian enthusiasm, and the daily life of a “tiger parenting” family, creating a series of hilarious moments?
That’s us — AuPair Ren!
Au Pair & Host family how to get along 互惠生与寄宿家庭如何相处
Good communication is the cornerstone of a successful au pair arrangement. Be proactive in explaining your expectations regarding duties and schedules, and invite your au pair to share their thoughts. For example, one host mom admitted she was unhappy with certain things but stayed “friendly” and never told the au pair, so the au pair assumed “everything was fine” (Confused First Time Host Family : r/Aupairs). The lesson: don’t bottle up issues—schedule regular check-ins to talk. A weekly chat to ask how your au pair is adjusting and to offer feedback or praise can work well.