- 互惠生怎么筛人？有无犯罪记录/背景核验？
- 不合适怎么办？替换机制与时间？
- 互惠生能不能独立带孩子出门？交通/驾照/路线？
- 家里老人同住，会不会尴尬？
- 生活边界怎么定？房间、作息、隐私、拍照发布
- 孩子不配合/哭闹怎么办？
- 英语到底怎么“自然发生”？每天要安排多长？
- 手机/屏幕时间怎么管？
- 会不会把孩子带坏（脏话、价值观、饮食习惯）？
- 费用一共多少？隐形成本有哪些？
- 出现纠纷/紧急情况，你们怎么介入？
- 怎么确保互惠生不会中途跑路/情绪崩溃？
上面涵盖了95%几乎所有家庭找互惠生所关注的问题。如果你也有疑问，直接问我。
但是在咨询我之前，我会需要从下面几个问题了解你的家庭：
- 你的家庭更像哪一类？（双职工/全职/国际学校/二胎…）
- 你希望互惠生接手是“接送/作业/陪玩/情绪/沟通/…”哪一个？
- 家长最担心互惠生的哪个风险？（安全/边界/稳定/价值观…）
- 你希望互惠生每天做的最到位 3 件事是什么？（可量化）
- How are au pairs screened? Are there criminal record checks or background verifications?
- What if it’s not a good fit? What is the replacement process and timeline?
- Can the au pair take the child out independently? (Transportation/Driver’s License/Navigation)
- Will it be awkward if elderly family members live in the home?
- How are living boundaries set? (Room, schedule, privacy, posting photos)
- What if the child is uncooperative or has a tantrum?
- How does English “happen naturally”? How much time should be structured daily?
- How is phone/screen time managed?
- Could they expose my child to bad influences? (Swearing, differing values, eating habits)
- What are the total costs? What are the hidden expenses?
- How do you intervene in case of disputes or emergencies?
- How do you ensure the au pair won’t leave abruptly or have an emotional breakdown?
The questions above cover nearly 95% of all concerns families have when seeking an au pair. If you have other questions, feel free to ask me directly.
However, before we consult, I’ll need to understand your family situation through a few key questions:
- Which category best describes your household? (Dual-income/Stay-at-home parent/International school/Multiple children…)
- What are the primary roles you hope the au pair will take on? (School runs/Homework help/Playtime/Emotional support/Communication…)
- What is your biggest concern regarding an au pair? (Safety/Boundaries/Reliability/Values…)
- What are the top 3 things you want the au pair to excel at daily? (Please be specific/measurable)