Andrea是一个我家找的第一个互惠生，我很幸运遇到这么好的一个姑娘，而且我把她留在了中国。
Andy是最早2018年到我家的，当时aupair ren的E老师全程帮我们办理。说实话，第一次接待互惠生没有太多经验，只是觉得Andy对小朋友真好，就跟家人似的，当然我也没有亏待她。后面再找互惠生，就知道Andy有多好了，后面找了好几个，再没有Andy这么和我们合得来的，那种亲切的感觉现在回忆起来都会让我感动。
Andy是真喜欢中国，在我家六个月互惠生结束了去了浙大读硕士，我就琢磨着这个女孩子真好人又单纯，我曾经试探过Andy喜欢不喜欢中国男孩，她就笑。我就把我的小堂弟介绍给了Andy。刚好那时候我的堂弟在杭州做电商，一来二去她俩好上了，Andy还给她的店铺做模特。疫情期间，Andy回了国，说是网课，一来二去过了两年Andy 才去杭州参加毕业典礼，接着和我堂弟结婚了。我特别高兴，因为我知道我的堂弟是什么样的性格，Andy是什么样的人，他俩在一起绝对是最好的组合。
2022年年底，Andy生了个女宝宝，刚开放没多久，后面Andy和我堂弟一起去了德国，说看看在那边做跨境电商怎么样。后来不知道什么原因，我堂弟一个人回来，告诉我：姐，我们离婚了，孩子暂时跟她在德国，过段时间我接回来。
我不想评论什么，Andy是个特别好的德国姑娘，我堂弟也是个老实能干的人，我没有问那么多，是我曾经努力把Andy留下，我希望他们的人生依然开心！我也要去看我的侄女和Andy了，今年夏天柏林见！
口述by 仁互惠生（Aupair Ren) L家庭，整理by 仁互惠生（Aupair Ren) Y
Andrea was the first au pair our family had. I was lucky to meet such a wonderful girl—and I even managed to keep her in China.
Andy first came to our family in 2018. At that time, Teacher E from Aupair Ren helped us with all the procedures. To be honest, we had little experience hosting an au pair back then, but we could tell Andy was great with the kids, like one of the family. Of course, we never treated her badly. Later, when we looked for other au pairs, we realized how special Andy was—none of the others clicked with us as well. That warm connection still touches me when I think about it.
Andy really loved China. After six months as an au pair, she went to Zhejiang University to pursue a master’s degree. I thought she was such a kind, sincere girl, so I once teased her about whether she liked Chinese guys. She just laughed. Then I introduced my young cousin to her. He was running an e-commerce business in Hangzhou, and they hit it off after spending time together. Andy even modeled for his store.
During the pandemic, Andy returned to her home country, saying she would take online classes. Two years passed before she came back to Hangzhou for her graduation. Soon after, she married my cousin.
In late 2022, Andy gave birth to a baby girl. Not long after borders reopened, my cousin came to me and said, “Sis, we’re divorced. The kid’s staying with her in Germany for now—I’ll bring her back soon.”
I don’t want to judge. Andy is an amazing German girl, and my cousin is honest and hardworking. I didn’t ask for details. I’d tried to keep Andy here, and I hope both of them find happiness in life. I’m going to visit my niece and Andy—see you in Berlin this summer!
Narrated by Family L from Aupair Ren, compiled by Y from Aupair Ren